Sep 5Member-onlyHabits transformed my life in less than 3 months“it is the small decisions you and I make every day that create our destinies” - Anthony Robbins, Awaken The Giant Within Six months ago, I found myself in a state of heartbreak and confusion. This challenging period was intensified by my dad’s sudden stroke, leaving him partially paralyzed. Adding…Self Help Books8 min readSelf Help Books8 min read
May 20Member-onlyHow Tony Robbins’ book helped me with a Breakup in 30 Days“Some things break your heart but fix your vision.” — Unknown When I recently went through a difficult breakup and family issue, I was overwhelmed with stress. It hurt me deeply that my ex-partner wasn’t there when I needed him the most. After reflecting on what had happened, it became…Personal Development4 min readPersonal Development4 min read
Apr 19Member-only5 lessons I learned from a failed relationship“You can’t just give up on someone because the situation is not ideal. Great relationships are not great because they have no problems. They are great because both people care enough about the other person to work on solving them.” — Unknown My partner and I split up about a…Relationship Advice6 min readRelationship Advice6 min read
Dec 27, 2022Member-onlyWhy do couples go separate ways? | how to save your relationshipIt was about this time, in the middle of the festive season, 7 years ago. My long-term relationship ended. Esther Perel, a Podcast host of ‘ Where shall we begin?’ says the reason for divorce in the US is because we feel happier without partners not because we are unhappy…Couples5 min readCouples5 min read
Dec 17, 2022Member-only5 techniques to break out of the unhappy vicious cycleI must admit I was an asshole 5 years ago. I still probably am but was a lot worse. The problem is I was also miserable at the same time. I resented happy and succesful people. I was miserable so I was arrogant and selfish. The vicious cycle continued for…Self Help6 min readSelf Help6 min read
Dec 9, 2022Member-onlyWhat happens if a hospitality worker changes their career to be an analyst?This is a sequel to one of my most-read articles on Medium. (How did a hospitality worker become a data analyst without a degree?) I became a data analyst about a year ago without a Data Science or Computer Science Degree. People often talk about a successful career change or…Career Change4 min readCareer Change4 min read
Sep 13, 2022Member-only6 Mistakes you can make in datingLast time I wrote an article called Lessons I learned from 7 dating apps. The article summarises my experiences and tips on standing out and how to put the profile authentically on the app. There are actually no perfect rules to having an amazing date. But there is definitely something…Dating5 min readDating5 min read
Jul 26, 2022Member-onlyEasy fix: when your partner is pulling awayIf you have an experience in a relationship or dating someone, you may experience your partner suddenly ‘disappearing’ from your life. I personally experienced this. Waiting for my partner to answer my calls or texts for 48 hours. It is such an excruciating experience. …Relationships Love Dating3 min readRelationships Love Dating3 min read
Jun 13, 2022Member-only5 Early Signs that the relationship is a real thingThey say one will kiss 100 frogs until you meet a prince. I may not have kissed 100 men but I have dated a good number of men. I love experimenting myself — dating men from different backgrounds and cultures. I hate to break it to you but there is…Relationships4 min readRelationships4 min read
Apr 25, 2022Member-only4 Lessons I learned from a Water leak and nearly being homelessMy personal life has been a roller coaster ride in the past two months. Last week, I received an eviction letter from my real estate agent. I have never thought that I would receive an eviction letter from my real estate agent. Because I was paying rent. I even made…Life Lessons5 min readLife Lessons5 min read
