5 techniques to break out of the unhappy vicious cycle

Hana Kobayashi
6 min readDec 17, 2022

I must admit I was an asshole 5 years ago. I still probably am but was a lot worse. The problem is I was also miserable at the same time. I resented happy and succesful people. I was miserable so I was arrogant and selfish. The vicious cycle continued for a long time. It was a very tough time when my long-term relationship ended even though I was the one who ended it. Now I look back I think the relationship ended mainly because I was unhappy with myself. I managed to get out of the vicious cycle and I would love to share ways out for you to be a happier you.

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Hana Kobayashi

Migrated to Australia. Passionate about financial independence, psychology, career and relationship.